Ben Update

I apologize for the lapse in blogging, but it has been near impossible to connect to the internet for almost a week. Praise God we were able to resolve that today!

Sept. 11, after a traumatic flurry of events (including an MRI and Pediatric Neuro Consult--all normal, no organic explanation for the symptoms) Ben was admitted to the Child Psychiatric ward in Queen's Medical Center, Honolulu. It's aptly named the Family Treatment Center. He was admitted under the diagnosis of psychosis, acute anxiety and OCD. It is a locked unit with many rules and regulations but the staff seem knowledgable. It was hard at first to be denied access to our child and we were allowed to bend the rules initially but have now been restricted to visiting during the hours of 1-2 pm and 7-8 pm which is double the normal visiting hours.

After a week of not eating and drinking, we cheered as baby steps were taken with Ben's first sip of water. He was SO dehydrated and so dry. The physician's orders were to initiate an IV Bolus 3x/day and NG tube if liquids were not immediately ingested. At this time, the liquids remain an easier sell than food. His intake of the latter is still very minimal.

Today was a great day in the sense that Ben was able to have Prozac administered alongside an anti-psychotic drug named Rispiradol (?sp) that will help alleviate the delusional thoughts swirling around his brain. We were able to get him to eat honey ham today as well as 1 grape and 450ml of a nutritional fruit drink. He met his liquid quota for the day and we were extremely proud of him.

Our best case scenario for release would include a miracle...that would be release from the hospital in a weeks time. Ben is still considered acute and realistically will be in another 2 weeks. If things progress more slowly, he will be deemed a sub-acute case, and it may be another month or two before he is released. Of course, we are praying for the miracle.

A huge hug and thanks for those who have been faithfully praying for our family and supporting us in more practical ways. We cherish each and every one of you. To our family in Winnipeg and in the rest of Canada, we love you. Rest assured that we have friends that are family here that are constantly checking in on us. Three couples here alone in Honolulu have been tremendous in their support for us.

Please continue to pray to the Healer, and Calmer of Ben's fears. Pray for sleep for Ben as his nights have been hard. Pray for strength and clarity of mind for his exhausted parents.

We love you all.